What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?

My posts about penis size are always popular, but the responses I get from women are about their concerns with how big their partner is, not about how small. Some women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it’s stretching you too much. Since I'm among the one in three women who does enjoy sex with a big penis, I'll explain why I do.

It's been said that the brain is the body's largest sex organ. A big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. The sight of a big penis makes many women think about the potential pleasures of feeling "full, " which can cause sexual excitement before foreplay even begins. The "vaginal ache," a desire to be "filled up" that women get during sexual arousal, may be satisfied by having something large stretch and fill the vagina. Also the experience of accommodating a big penis can be a mentally stimulating, thus, making it easier to reach orgasm.

So, what does the vagina actually feel like when it is being entered, probed, and "filled" with a big penis? Well, it obviously feels good. That "good" feeling comes from the friction of the penis rubbing within me. If I am too dry, the friction can cause discomfort rather than pleasure. If my vagina is too well lubricated, the friction is often reduced. In those cases, the actual intercourse can be less enjoyable, but that is often overcome by my mental stimulation knowing how turned on I am because I being screwed by a big penis.

Generally, a woman can accommodate a penis that is somewhat longer than the depth of her vagina because, even when fully erect, the penis tends to be spongy and compresses somewhat against the firm back wall of the vagina. If the probing penis is not too long or too "bony," women often enjoy the feeling of having that penis "beat" against the back walls of their vagina. However, some women don't like their cervix bumped at all, whether head on or sliding underneath.

I find a little bit of pressure on the cervix can be VERY pleasurable, but "cervical sex" is only really phenomenal for me if I am 100% ready to go and so aroused that I am ready to just be completely devoured by the man I'm with. If I am not quite to that point, having a penis knocking on my cervix hurts like getting a tattoo, not really all that painful, but certainly annoying.

Women generally love the feeling of deep penetration into their vagina, but for most women a thick penis is much more important than a long penis. This preference of penis girth over length is because a thick penis is much more able to give women that wonderful feeling of being full in their vagina. Some women find their orgasms are more intense when their vagina is filled to capacity. In addition, since it's able to press a woman’s vagina from all sides of the wall, a thick penis is more likely to stimulate the G-spot.

Does my preference for a big penis mean that I'll only have sex with a well-endowed man? No, the man himself is more important than the size of his penis. Intercourse is only one aspect of sex, and oral and anal sex can provide as much erotic pleasure as I could ever desire. Besides, certain sex positions can make a smaller penis feel longer and thicker anyway. Still, a man who is both a masterful lover and well-hung... ooh la la!

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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How to Have Anal Sex with a Big Penis

Can a penis be too big for anal sex? Probably not, though size does matter. However, a big penis doesn't have to be a deal breaker. With proper preparation, enough lubrication, the right position, and relaxation techniques, having anal sex with a big penis can be comfortable and pleasurable.

1) Preparation. One way to prepare yourself for anal sex with a big penis is butt plugs. Get one butt plug as large as the diameter of your partner's penis and one or two smaller ones. Use the smaller ones as "trainers," if necessary, and work up to being able to insert the largest one. You can wear a butt plug during the day to prepare for anal sex that evening, or wait to insert it prior to foreplay. If you wear it while having vaginal sex, he will love how tight it makes your vagina feel. Once you're able to insert and wear the large butt plug, penetration with his penis should then be fairly comfortable.

2) Lubrication. Since the anal region is not self-lubricating, lubricants are essential to reduce friction and discomfort during anal sex, and even more so with a big penis. A good choice for anal sex is Astroglide, a super-smooth, long-lasting lubricant that can be found at many neighborhood pharmacies. Use as much lube as possible. You really can’t use too much.

3) Position. Though doggy-style may be the most popular anal sex position, it’s not necessarily the best one if your partner has a big penis. Missionary position (man on top, woman on bottom) allows the woman to fully relax her anus, making penetration much easier. Another good position is side anal or "spooning." The woman lies on one side, and the man approaches from the rear. The woman can relax her anus, and the man can easily access the entire anal area.

4) Relaxation. If you have pain when his penis is inserted, have your partner stop, but not pull out. He should just hold his position while you take several slow, deep breaths and relax the anal muscles. Pushing out (as you would for a bowel movement) will help to open those muscles and allow them relax against the penis. The pain should subside though you may still might feel some discomfort from having something pushing into you and being stretched open. Try to stay relaxed as he continues to push his penis in further. Any time it hurts, have your partner stop while you take slow, deep breaths, push out, and relax until the pain subsides.

If the man exercises patience and control, most women will be able to accommodate any size penis using the above techniques. The incredible sensations of fullness for a woman and tightness for the man make anal sex with a big penis worth the extra time and effort.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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What to Do If Your Man's Penis Is Too Big

For a woman, a big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. However, many women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it's stretching you too much. Below are three suggestions for dealing with both size issues.

1) Extended foreplay
As part of female sexual response, arousal brings with it physical changes that help deal with a bigger penis. The vagina can expand by up to 200 percent during sex, so size is seldom an issue unless a woman isn’t fully aroused. To accommodate an erect penis comfortably, some women need up to 20 minutes of stimulation. If you’re used to intercourse with a partner who has a small or medium-sized penis, you may have been able to comfortably have intercourse before you were fully turned on. If your partner is bigger, you may need to wait until you’re very aroused before moving to penetration. Also, anticipating discomfort causes your muscles, including your vaginal muscles, to tense up, making penetration more difficult. If he gives you a long, sensual massage before intercourse, it will help to relax your muscles and also turn you on.

2) Add lubricant
If you don't already use lubricant during vaginal intercourse, now is the time to start. There are dozens of different brands of lube, and they all make sex more comfortable by making it more slippery. Some women say they don’t need additonal lube because they lubricate a lot on their own. However, if you’re having intercourse with someone with a big penis, using extra lubricant is always recommended. Experiment with a few different kinds to see if a thicker or thinner lube is best for you, and, if you’re prone to yeast infections, avoid lubricants with glycerin. Don't forget that lubrication can come and go, so be sure to keep adding the slippery stuff as needed.

3) Sex positions
Sex positions are another way to deal with discomfort due to a partner who has a large penis. The best sex position will be one that allows you control over the depth and angle of penetration and offers as much movement as possible. Avoid positions that allow for deep penetration (e.g., rear entry) and favor positions that give you more control.

The woman-on-top position is a good one to try because it lets you control the depth of penetration. Have him lie flat on his back and crouch over him on your hands and knees while sliding him inside you. Move your hips in circular motions as you glide up and down, only taking as much of his penis as you can handle. Another position you can try is to have him sit on a chair with no arms. Then straddle his lap, facing either toward him or away from him, and use your feet and thigh muscles to pump away. If you do use a position that allows deep penetration, such as rear entry (doggy style) or man-on-top (missionary), remember that the farther apart your legs are, the deeper he can thrust, so keep your thighs together. Not only will it prevent him from plunging in too deep, it can also make for some amazing clitoral/penile friction.

During sex, tell him how you feel, what is uncomfortable, and what feels good. This doesn't mean carrying on a full conversation while having sex; simple words, such as "deeper" or "not so deep," "gently" or "harder," "faster" or "slower,"are usually enough to get the point across and make sex more enjoyable for both of you.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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How to Deep Throat a Really Long Penis

So, you've learned to deep throat a penis, and maybe even mastered some advanced techniques. You consider yourself quite the deep throat queen. Then you meet a new man, one thing leads to another, and you wind up in bed together. Once the boxers come off, you can't help but notice something about your new lover: he has a long penis - a really long penis. It's at least an inch or two longer than the longest penis you've ever deep throated before, and at that time you thought you'd swallowed as much as you possibly could.

Are you going to have to abdicate your throne, and settle for being a common fellatrix? Not necessarily. If your man is exceedingly lengthy, and you just won’t be happy until you can swallow all of him to the root, here’s the technique you’ll need to penetrate further into the esophagus. It's not easy for some women, but, remember that most sword swallowers can swallow swords from about 16" to 22" (about 40 to 60 cm). You can probably learn to swallow half that length.

When faced with this huge penis, your brain will become alarmed that this massive intruder might go into your windpipe, so it will create a sphincter in there that closes up. How do you get around it? Have you ever sucked air into your stomach to make a burp? You do it by opening your throat and sucking in. That’s the technique you use to get down into your esophagus. When you feel his penis "hit bottom" around the 7" to 9" mark (18 to 23 cm), do four things right away: (1) open your throat and suck in; (2) swallow hard; (3) move your tongue vigorously inward; and (4) push gently.

The first few times you may have to push a little harder than you might assume you would because you are fighting against your own brain here. Also, the first few times there will probably be a momentary flash of a brand new sensation deep in your throat. This is caused by the stimulation of thousands of nerves that had hitherto been unused. Your brain is rapidly trying to sort out whether it’s pain, or heat, or what. Actually, it’s just pressure, which your brain will figure out in a second or two.

As you gain experience, your brain will eventually recognize the signals, and you will feel only the pleasure of the penis's surface sliding along the smooth surface of the inside of your esophagus. Deep throating a really long penis is definitely more difficult than deep throating an average-sized one, but certainly not impossible if you want to attempt it.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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6 Ways to Turn a Small Penis into a Big Asset

Do you consider your penis to be undersized? Having a small penis is far from being a death of your sex life. Men with small penises can actually become much better lovers and attract and satisfy beautiful women much better than men gifted with big ones. If you're not convinced, here are six ways to turn a small penis into a big asset.

1) Spend time on foreplay.
In many cases, women appreciate foreplay much more than actual penetration. The way you touch your woman indicates to her how you feel about her, and the way you feel about her impacts how she will respond to you sexually and how pleasurable the sex will be for her. Arouse her slowly. It takes most women far longer than men to become fully aroused - as long as a half-hour in many cases.

2) Improve your oral skills.
A big penis is no advantage when it comes to performing cunnilingus. Hardly any woman would complain that your penis is not big enough if you have made her climax with your tongue and lips. Following the 5 Steps to Perfect Cunnilingus will ensure that the size of your penis is the last thing on her mind.

3) Play and tease.
The erogenous zones that bring most women to orgasm are easy to access. Use all possible techniques to please her clitoris- stroke it with your fingers, mouth, and, yes, your penis. If you learn to how to Tease Her to Please Her, you may make her orgasm happen before actual penetration.

4) Learn how to use what you have.
Your small penis can feel big if you use one of these two positions that will make your penis feel bigger inside her. However, it's not really about the size, but about the way you use it. Studies reveal that only about 30% of women reach orgasm from sexual intercourse, but if you use theFriction Zone Technique, you can often give women orgasms during intercourse who have never had them before.

5) A small penis can be an advantage with anal sex.
A woman who is hesitant to try anal sex with a big penis may be more will to have a go at it with a small one. If you follow these 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex, she may even learn to like it even more than doing it in the "usual way."

6) Engage your creativity
Keep in mind that the biggest erogenous zone is brain. Excite your woman on a mental level. Talk to her, give her compliments, and invent new scenarios of lovemaking. In other words, turn your sex session into something special.

Now that you are aware of all these techniques, stop worrying. You now know that you can satisfy any woman no matter what the size of your penis. Besides, women like men - not penises. Once a woman is involved in a relationship with a man, all the sizes and other measurements become absolutely insignificant.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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How Long Is the Ideal Penis?

Penis size may be the single greatest cause of anxiety among men. Worrying about your penis size can lead to relationship problems, avoiding sex or relationships, erectile dysfunction, or premature ejaculation. Studies of penis size show the average erect penis ranges from 5 to 7 inches. Is that enough to satisfy the average woman? To find out, almost 40,000 women were asked, "How long is the ideal penis?"

The fewest number of women preferred short penises. Only 3% of women preferred penises measuring 3-4 inches. The next smallest group of women (5%) thought 4-5 inches was the ideal length. The next smallest percentages were 6% for women who preferred large penises of 8-9 inches and the same percentage of women liking them even longer. Then there is a big jump to 20% of women who think 7-8 inches is ideal. Women who thought the ideal penis was 5-6 inches came in next at 24%. The winner in the ideal penis length survey was 6-7 inches being the perfect size for 36% of women.

What does this survey tell us? First off, really large penises of 8 inches or more are not that popular with women. Only 1 out of 8 women likes them extra large. On the other hand, really short penises are even less popular. Only 1 in 12 women would be satisfied with a penis measuring less than 5 inches. Penises measuring in the average range of 5-7 inches satisfy the majority of women--60%. That's the good news for the average-sized guy. The bad news is that about 1 out of 3 (32%) do prefer larger than average penises of more than 7 inches.

So what's a guy to do? If you're average, that's going to be just fine for about 2 out of 3 women, and with the others, you can make up for it in other ways. My post Two Sex Positions That Make Your Man’s Penis Feel Bigger tells how changing positions can make your penis feel longer and thicker inside her. Tease Her to Please Her tells how to tease and please a woman by SLOWLY increasing physical stimulation, thereby creating almost unbearable sexual desire and tension. the Friction Zone Technique stimulates the clitoris with the friction and pressure from the upper pubic region (the area right above the pubic bone), making penis size almost irrelevant.

If you begin a night of lovemaking with the methods of Tease Her to Please Her, followed by the Friction Zone Technique, you are guaranteed to leave your woman satisfied and happy at the end of the night. Then whatever your penis size is will be ideal to her.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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Two Sex Positions That Make Your Man's Penis Feel Bigger

If you find that your man's penis is too small, changing positions can make it feel longer and thicker. Two of most men's favorite sex positions are doggy-style (rear entry) and missionary (man on top). Fortunately, these are two of the easiest to adjust to make your man's penis feel bigger inside you.

In doggy-style, you should drop your shoulders to the bed and back up against your own knees, which shortens your vaginal canal. In missionary position, once he's inside you, raise your legs up and back until they are on his shoulders. This is by far the simplest and easiest move to use if you want to feel a bit more length and girth between your legs. This position also provides a nice rubbing against the top of the vaginal wall, which stimulates the G-spot.

Also, if you're loving the way your man is thrusting away deep inside you but he isn't getting quite deep enough, get in on the action and start thrusting back. Use your feet to anchor yourself at the bottom of your bed or sofa. Then push down on the soles of your feet for leverage as you thrust your pelvis against your man at the same time that he thrusts into you. This provides extra deep penetration.

Whether your man genuinely has a small penis or whether it's average, if you want it to feel a bit bigger inside you, try these positions the next time you have sex.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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Does Natural Penis Enlargement REALLY Work?

Many men dream of getting a big penis, but is it worth it? If you're talking about phalloplasty (penis enlargement surgery), I don't think so for most men. This method has a high post-operative dissatisfaction rate and should only be considered if you are truly below average in penis size and are mentally suffering as a result. I once had a reader at my blog Sex Secrets, who deluged me with comments expressing his anger and bitterness about the size of his penis, blaming it completely for his failed relationships with women. A man like this might be a good candidate for phalloplasty because he is so depressed and frustrated that he needs instant results.

Is there an alternative to penis enlargement surgery?

What about the vast majority of men who fall within the average range (5 to 6.5 inches), but feel that a bigger penis would boost their self-confidence and aid them in satisfying their female sex partners? Is there an alternative to penis enlargement surgery? For these men, natural penis enlargement may be the answer.

Does natural penis enlargement really work?

Does natural penis enlargement really work? I can't speak directly from personal experience, lacking the equipment to do so. However, I know that penis enlargement exercises work for at least some men because a former lover – after I commented of the size of his penis – confessed that he had used them to increase his penis size an inch and a half. I can't think of any possible reason for a man to say that unless it were true.

How does natural penis enlargement work?

If natural penis enlargement does work, how does it work? The penis is made up of three chambers, two large ones which run along the top (Corpora Cavernosa) and one smaller one (Corpus spongiosum) that runs along the bottom of the penis. When a man gets an erection, the larger chambers are the parts that fill with blood, which causes his penis to expand. A man's penis size is limited to the amount of blood these two main chambers can take. When they're full, he has his maximum erection size.

The key to enlarging the penis is using special techniques designed to increase the amount of blood that these chambers will hold. The more blood that gets into the penis, the bigger it becomes. Natural penis enlargement works by breaking down the cell walls and gently forcing more blood through them. The penis then repairs itself by growing the cells back larger and stronger than before. This allows a greater intake of blood, which results in a larger, fitter, and more attractive penis.

The penis, although not a muscle, is very similar to any other part of the body. If you don't exercise it, then it'll never be as good as it could be. Imagine if you'd never done any exercise before. Just think how unfit you'd be. Most men have very underdeveloped, unfit penises because they have never exercised them. That's where natural penis enlargement exercises can help.

What about pills, penis pumps, and weight-hanging techniques?

I don't know much about how effective these methods are, but I have read that penis pumps and weight-hanging techniques can cause injuries. If I had a penis, and I was already worried about its size, the last thing I would want to do is take a chance on injuring it, too. You'd be better off just going ahead with penis enlargement surgery if you can afford the $3,500 to $6,000 it costs. At least then if the surgeon ruined your penis, you could sue him for malpractice.

Should you pay for a natural penis enlargement program?

Should you pay for a natural penis enlargement program? After all, free instructions for penis enlargement exercises are all over the internet. One thing I've noticed about these free instructions, though, is that they're often confusing and sometimes contradict the instructions given somewhere else. I was glad I didn't actually need to try to use them.

If you only want to add an inch or so to your penis size and don't really care that much whether you get results or not, the penis enlargement exercises that you can find for free online are probably all right. However, if you're looking for gains of 1-4 inches and want guaranteed results, I would buy a proven program with that actually works, such as PenisAdvantage.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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