The 3 Best Positions for MFM Threesomes

Being with two men at once is many women’s biggest fantasy, but, once you’ve found two men, what's the best way to have sex so that everyone ends up happy and satisfied? My recommendations are based on two assumptions: 1) you want to experience double penetration, and 2) one or both of the men are so insecure that even accidentally touching another man's penis would completely ruin their evening. The following three positions allow you to be penetrated in two orifices at once while keeping physical contact between the two men at a minimum.

1) Rear-entry/oral. Kneel on all fours with your legs parted slightly. One man enters you from behind, and the other kneels or stands in front of you so that you can perform oral sex on him. Try to keep your back arched slightly, either with your elbows up and locked or by holding on to the man you're giving oral to. That way, by pulling up on your hips and thrusting in a more downward motion, the first man can hit your G-spot . (G-spot stimulation is more likely than anything else to cause a strong, prolonged orgasm.)

2) Vaginal/anal. One man lies down on his back, and you mount him, inserting his penis into your vagina. The second man then comes up behind you and penetrates your anus. This is the position I was in for My First (Surprise) MFM Threesome. For maximum comfort and pleasure, arrange to take the larger penis into your vagina and the smaller one into your anus. Warning: this position may not be suitable for extremely insecure men because they will almost certainly feel each other's movements when they're both inside you.

3) Man-on-top/oral. Lie down on your back with your head hanging head hanging off the edge of the bed. One man gets between your legs and enters you vaginally or anally. Because of the possibility of your sliding backwards off the bed, this is not the time to throw your legs over his shoulders or for him to thrust too vigorously.

The other man stands at your head so that you can perform oral sex on him. Actively thrusting the penis into the mouth of a partner is called irrumatio. If you can deep throat, he will be able to put his penis in as deeply as he wishes in this position, and he can enjoy watching your neck and throat expand and bulge as his penis slides in deep. (If you can’t deep throat and want to learn how, read my tutorial Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It.) If hanging your head off the edge of the bed becomes uncomfortable, you can turn over and continue in position one.

Engaging in an MFM threesome is an experience you’ll never forget. So, if you’re ready, willing and able, go ahead and fulfill one of the biggest fantasies all women dream of – and enjoy it!

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What’s the Best Position for Morning Sex?

For most of us, waking up in the morning doesn't show us in our best light. Our breath may be not its freshest, our hair most likely will be a mess, and most women feel at a disadvantage without our make-up.

Having sex in the morning requires close contact, and many women don't like to be face to face at that time of day. However, a man's testosterone levels are highest in the morning, and if you have some time to spare, morning sex can be a real delight for both of you.

What's the best position for morning sex? The face to-face positions are usually best left for later. This leaves rear entry or side-to-side positions. One position that is a hybrid of both is called the sensual spoon.

Every couple knows how to assume the spoon. Lie on your side with your man behind you. With both of your torsos in this pose, lift your top leg. Then your man should shift his lower body into a half-kneeling position and enter you from behind.

The sensual spoon position gives you the best of two worlds. The half-doggy-style, half-spooning hybrid combines the intimacy of lying side by side with G-spot-rubbing penetration. Since both of his hands are free, he can caress your breasts and stimulate your clitoris. You can reach behind and fondle his testicles and stroke his perineum as he thrusts.

The G-spot is highly stimulated by this angle of entry, and, at the same time, you achieve the depth of rear entry penetration. This position also tends to delay your man's ejaculation, so you can be assured of adequate time for your own orgasm.

The sensual spoon position is an easy, gentle way to have sex when you're just waking up, and you don't have to worry about your morning appearance since you're not face to face. This makes this position one of best choices for morning sex.

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The 4 Best Positions for G-Spot Massage

The G-spot is the focal point of female sexual arousal. The G-spot lies about 2 inches inside the vagina behind the front wall of the vagina. It is a tiny, bean-shaped area which swells and can become as large as a quarter when stimulated, though, actually, the aroused G-spot's size varies considerably from woman to woman. Since every woman is different, couples may need to experiment with different positions to find the best way to stimulate her G-spot. Try these four positions for G-spot massage.

1) Woman upright on her knees with the man in front of her is the best position to use when trying to find her G-spot for the first time.

2) Woman on her back with the man between her legs is also a great position for G-spot massage. This position allows easy access to the clitoris, G-spot, and, at the same time, you are able to view your partner's reactions to your stimulation. This video demonstrates this position.

3) The woman on her back with the man beside her position is one of the best positions for helping a woman to experience a G-spot orgasm for the first time. This position provides the physical closeness and emotional security that most women need to be able to let themselves go and experience a deeper orgasm and ejaculation. You can kiss her, whisper sweet nothings to her, squeeze her to reassure her that you are there with her, and stimulate her at the same time. The drawback is that your arm can get tired very quickly in this position.

4) The woman bent over on her hands and knees with the man behind her can be very stimulating for both partners. This is especially pleasing and erotic for the man if the man is fond of his partner’s derrière. In any position from behind the woman, the man must use a downward pressure with his fingers to stimulate the G-spot because the position of the front wall of the vagina is reversed from the other positions with the woman on her back.

Many women report that they can have an orgasm from stimulation of the G-spot alone. Some women also report that orgasms arising from G-spot stimulation are more intense, deeper, more "whole body." A few women even say they ejaculate. Most women who have experienced both claim that it is easier to have multiple G-spot orgasms than it is to have multiple clitoral orgasms. It is also true that the intensity of G-spot orgasms may be directly related to pubococcygeal muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises.

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4 Ancient Pagan Sex Positions

The sexual practices of pagans were based on the power of creation and nature's role in it. What we know about their sexual practices is from the prohibitions of the Christian church and its insistence on the standard missionary position for sexual union. Here are four ancient pagan sex positions that were banned by the Church.

1) The Bunny and Hare
The woman would be on all fours on the ground and take a sort of crouching position. The man would spread her legs slightly, and, while on his knees, he would penetrate her and thrust in a very aggressive manner with the idea to finish and ejaculate as quickly as possible. This was the way pagans saw rabbits copulating.

2) The Deer and Stag
This was a standing position where the woman would bend at her waist at a 45 degree angle and hold on to a tree. The man would make a rear entry, holding her hips and forcing her to counter thrust as he thrust in an aggressive manner. This position allows for good penetration and fair G-spot stimulation.

3) Leaping Lizards
Leaping lizards is a standing position with the man and woman face to face. The woman raises one leg, and wraps it around the man's waist, while being supported against a tree or rock. The man would enter her, and the woman would embrace him. Their coordinated movements gave the image of lizards leaping. This position is excellent for clitoral stimulation.

4) Standing Spoons
In this position, the woman turns her back to the man while standing and supporting herself against a tree. The man spreads the woman's legs slightly and enters her from the rear. There is no thrusting. The man presses himself as closely as he can to her and embraces the woman by cupping her breasts. The woman may use one hand to press the man's buttocks. This position allows full penetration and gives excellent G-spot stimulation.

Pagan sexual practices are not lost to history as many people believe. The sex positions they used are recommended by many sex experts today as some of the best positions for pleasuring both partners.

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Two Sex Positions That Make Your Man's Penis Feel Bigger

If you find that your man's penis is too small, changing positions can make it feel longer and thicker. Two of most men's favorite sex positions are doggy-style (rear entry) and missionary (man on top). Fortunately, these are two of the easiest to adjust to make your man's penis feel bigger inside you.

In doggy-style, you should drop your shoulders to the bed and back up against your own knees, which shortens your vaginal canal. In missionary position, once he's inside you, raise your legs up and back until they are on his shoulders. This is by far the simplest and easiest move to use if you want to feel a bit more length and girth between your legs. This position also provides a nice rubbing against the top of the vaginal wall, which stimulates the G-spot.

Also, if you're loving the way your man is thrusting away deep inside you but he isn't getting quite deep enough, get in on the action and start thrusting back. Use your feet to anchor yourself at the bottom of your bed or sofa. Then push down on the soles of your feet for leverage as you thrust your pelvis against your man at the same time that he thrusts into you. This provides extra deep penetration.

Whether your guy genuinely has a small penis or whether it's average, if you want it to feel a bit bigger inside you, try these positions the next time you have sex.

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The Two Best Sex Positions for Delaying Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation, defined as a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation, affects 25%-40% of men, and polls regularly show that one of women’s main sexual complaints is that men ejaculate too soon. Experts say most men reach orgasm in under three minutes (after 30 to 60 thrusts) while most women require at least seven minutes. If premature ejaculation is a chronic or occasional problem for you, try these two “slow it down” positions.

1) Woman on top
To control your ejaculation, you need to remember that ejaculation is provoked by the speed and force of your thrusting, so the key to delaying ejaculation is to decrease the speed and force of your thrusts. When a woman is on top, there is minimal sexual stimulation of your penis. You don’t thrust; your woman does. However, she should do so SLOWLY. This sex position is perfect for both partners and leaves plenty of time to enjoy each other before orgasm.

2) Sitting
Sitting positions are great too. A good one for a man is sitting on the edge of the bed with his feet on the floor. She then wraps her arms around your neck and her legs around your waist. The result is face-to-face intimacy, simultaneous pleasure, and long-lasting sex because in this sex position you also avoid intense penis stimulation.

The sexual positions where all the “work” is done by the man, such as all the variations of man-on-top (missionary) and rear entry (doggy style), should be avoided if premature ejaculation is a problem. If you and your woman really prefer these positions, save them for last, preferably after she has had an orgasm and you're ready to finish. However, iff you do start with one of these positions, be sure to thrust DEEPLY and SLOWLY. When you get deeper inside her, your penis enters a wider area of her vagina and the sensitive penis head is not stimulated as much.

Another technique is rotation: press your pubic zone against her and wriggle slightly every time that you feel the urge to ejaculate. The level of your excitement will be decreased after a few seconds with this technique so that you can restart thrusting. My post Use the Friction Zone to Bring a Woman to Orgasm during Intercourse expands on this technique.

In addition to sexual positions, there are a couple of other delaying tactics you can try. Breathing is another method of arousal control. Simply taking three long, deep breaths is enough to direct blood flow away from the penis after which you can start thrusting again. An Effective Tantra Breathing Technique to Prolong Sexual Intercourse by Jennifer Lawless describes an even more powerful breathing exercise for delaying ejaculation.

Another thing you can do is perform Kegel exercises, because the pelvic muscles form the base for the male reproductive system. When the PC muscles are strong, they help to achieve complete control over ejaculation. Michael Paladin's post Exercise for Harder Erections contains the most complete program I've seen anywhere.

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Use the Friction Zone to Bring a Woman to Orgasm during Intercourse

Studies reveal that only about 28% of women reach orgasm from sexual intercourse alone. There are two main reasons for that statistic. First of all, it takes most women far longer than men to become fully aroused - as long as a half-hour in many cases. Women take an average of twenty minutes to reach orgasm, and for many women, it can take up to a half-hour or more of sustained stimulation to move into orgasmic range.

Another reason that only 28% of women experience orgasm regularly during vaginal intercourse is because they don't get enough direct clitoral stimulation during intercourse to have an orgasm. The Friction Zone Technique can often give women orgasms during intercourse who have never had them before. This thrusting technique stimulates the clitoris with the friction and pressure from the upper pubic region (the area right above the pubic bone), which we'll call the Friction Zone. To perform the Friction Zone Technique, follow the steps below:

1) Make sure that the woman's clitoris and upper vaginal area are well-lubricated with her own juices, saliva, lubricant, etc. The man should be on top.

2) The woman should spread her vaginal lips with her hands. When she does this, the man should put his penis in up to the base and rest the Friction Zone on her clitoris.

3) The man should put his weight on her body, and then reach down, grab her butt cheeks, and spread them apart.

4) Then the man should start sliding up and down on her, NOT in and out. His penis should remain completely inside her all the way to the base, right at the pubic bone as he moves. To do this, he will need to grab her shoulders or the edge of the bed with both hands and push off with his toes as well. As he does all of this, make sure that the greatest friction is where the Friction Zone and the clitoris meet. This might all sound really complicated, but it is actually very easy.

5) Keep moving and try not to break the friction. Continue until she has at least one orgasm.

The Friction Zone Technique is not physically tiring or overly stimulating for the man, so most men can continue intercourse long enough for their partners to have an orgasm. The Friction Zone Technique is also ideal to use following another sex position or thrusting technique when the man needs a breather, but the woman doesn't want to stop. The intimate contact and pleasurable stimulation of the Friction Zone Technique are sure to make it a favorite in many couples' lovemaking repertoire.

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Which Anal Sex Positions Are Best for Beginners?

Many women are curious about anal sex, but are scared about comfort and safety issues. Some women who are unwilling to try anal sex with their current partner may have had a bad experience with an impatient or ignorant lover in the past.

However, anal sex can be very pleasurable for women because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are actually closer on that side, which makes the sensation unique, stronger and quite possibly orgasmic. My post Anal Sex from a Female Perspective describes what anal sex feels like for a woman. If you want to try anal sex with your wife or girlfriend, but are uncertain of her reaction, use the approach I recommend in How to Make Her Want Anal Sex.

For those couples trying anal sex for the first time, choosing the best position may make the difference between a painful or pleasurable experience.

1) Doggie Style is probably the most commonly thought of anal sex position. The woman kneels on all fours, and the man approaches from the rear. Though this is the most common anal position, it's not necessarily the most comfortable, or the best beginner position, as the woman tends to tighten up her anus in this position.

2) Flying Doggie is a variation of the popular doggie style position. The man stands behind the woman and places his feet outside the legs of the woman. You'll find that the man will be positioned higher and will be inserting into the anus in a more downward fashion.


3) In the Wheelbarrow position, the man approaches the woman from behind, similar to doggie stye, but lifts the woman's legs into the air. The woman must support herself with her arms only, or lie flat on a bed or chair.

4) The Anal Drop position puts the woman on top and the man on the bottom. You might think that this would be the best beginner position since it gives the woman control over the depth and speed of penetration, but being on top causes the woman to involuntarily tighten up her anus, making penetration difficult.

5) In the Anal Kama Sutra position, the man lies flat on his back with the woman on top, facing the man's feet. The woman should lean as far toward the feet as possible and then commence pumping. This angle tends to maximize anal pleasure for the woman while delaying orgasm for the man.

6) Side Anal is a good beginner position. The woman lies on one side, and the man approaches from the rear. The woman can relax her anus, and the man can easily access the entire anal area.

7) The Missionary position (man on top, woman on bottom) is the best beginner position for anal sex. It allows the woman to fully relax her anus, making penetration much easier. The woman lies face up with a pillow under her pelvis and her legs pulled up. The man should kneel or lie facing the woman and insert at an angle that is comfortable to both. In this position, the woman can relax several muscles necessary for pleasurable anal sex.

Women are often just as excited as men to be venturing into the anal aspect of sex. Many couples find that anal sex is a tremendous tool to enhance their regular sex activities. It's a unique feeling that is completely different to vaginal sex and worth experimenting with.

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