Two Sex Tips for Men with a Small Penis

Many men are ashamed of having a small penis, sometimes with good reason. According to a recent survey, over 50% of women have dumped a partner or refused to have sex because of small penis size. However, an under-endowed man doesn't have to be a bad lover. The good news is that when a small penis is used with maximum effect, it can still give a woman pleasure. Try these two proven tips to help you compensate for having a small penis.


1) Choose the right position.

The right sex position can make a small penis feel longer and thicker. Two of most men’s favorite sex positions are doggy-style (rear entry) and missionary (man on top). Fortunately, these are two of the easiest to adjust to make a small penis feel bigger.
In doggy-style, she should drop her shoulders to the bed and back up against her own knees. This shortens her vaginal canal. In missionary position, once you're inside her, she should raise her legs up and back until they are on your shoulders. This position also provides a nice rubbing against the top of the vaginal wall, which stimulates the G-spot.

 2) Try anal sex.

Anal sex is highly recommended sex act for men who are not well endowed. It offers tight sensation, and makes your penis feels larger inside her. Before you perform anal sex, you must make sure she is fully aroused, or else penetration may still cause discomfort or even pain. Use lubricants to add moisture.

 A man with a small penis should use a rear entry position for maximum penetration. To assume the position, have her bend over on a sofa or table or get on all fours and then enter her from behind. To begin with, push your penis in only an inch or so, and check that she is comfortable. Thrust slowly, and do not push all the way in until she's ready. If you are inexperienced with anal sex, see my post Anal Sex for Beginners for more tips.

Remember that no two women are created alike. Each has different preference when it comes to stimulation technique. Try different techniques, and when you find something she likes, make sure to add it to your repertoire.

 If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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5 Ways to Make Anal Sex Better for HIM

Anal sex is enjoyable for men because the tight anal sphincter rings provide strong sensations to a thrusting penis, but that doesn't mean that women can't do things to make it more enjoyable. Although the man does all the 'bumping and the grinding," it's the woman who makes the experience fun. Many women have anal sex primarily to reward their men or make them happy, so here are five ways for women to make anal sex better for their partners.

1) Once you know you can accept your partner's penis, try alternately relaxing your anus when he thrusts into you, and then tightening slightly as he withdraws. This feels wonderful to both of you!

2) As a variation on the above, he can hold you to keep you from moving your body, slide deep into you, and, while not thrusting himself, have you squeeze and release with just your anal muscles until he ejaculates. Quite difficult, but worth it.

3) You can train to do the above techniques by doing Kegels. To perform a Kegel exercise, contract your anus, glutes, and pelvis and hold the contraction for a count of five. Then, slowly relax your muscles again and take a brief rest. Repeat ten times to complete a set and try to perform three sets of Kegels throughout your day.

4) One position I’ve grown to like is lying on my stomach with my legs closed. This position allows you to squeeze the cheeks of your butt together making you a lot tighter for your partner. It's also a good position if you're with a man who just doesn't seem to be able to orgasm. Most of my partners have yet to last more than five minutes with me in this position.

5) Glute bridges work the muscles of the buttocks, which you can use when in the "belly down" positon. If you want, you can combine this exercise with Kegels. To do a glute bridge, lie on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat. Your arms should be extended on each side of your body. Slowly raise your buttocks off the floor so that your hips move upward. Contract your glute and abdominal muscles. This is the position where you can add a Kegel. Hold for the count of five, then slowly bring your buttocks back down to the ground and relax. Repeat this exercise for one to three sets of 10 repetitions. If you add Kegels to your glute bridges, you don't need to do Kegels as a separate exercise.

You will enjoy anal sex much more if you are an active participant. Don't just lie there and take it. By trying one or more of the above tips, you can not only make anal sex better for your partner, but also make it more enjoyable for yourself.

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The 3 Best Anal Sex Positions for Intimacy

Anal sex is an exciting way for a couple to explore each other sexually, creating new and intense sensations for both of you to enjoy. Anal sex can also be an exquisitely intimate act, in which a woman surrenders her body completely to her man. Whether you are experienced at anal sex, or you are trying it for the first time, these three positions will allow for greater intimacy between partners.

 1) Side Anal is a good position for intimacy. With her lying on her side and you lying on your side behind her, she can relax her anus, and you can easily access the entire anal area. This is one of the best anal sex positions because it allows you to enter from behind, but still be able to wrap your arms around your lover. As you have her cuddled next to you, pleasure her with slow and gentle movements. Caress her shoulders and softly kiss her neck and back from this position. This will make her feel cherished and appreciated, creating a sense of intimacy and causing her to be filled with incredible pleasure!

2) Anal Drop (woman-on-top) With the man on his back, the woman climbs on top. This is one of the best anal sex positions because she can control the angle that you enter her, the intensity of the movements, and how deep she wants you inside of her. Since you want a highly pleasurable experience for her, be attentive to her needs. Look into her eyes, caress her arms and hands, and kiss her affectionately. Let her know how incredibly sexy and attractive she is to you because that, along with the anal sensations, will stimulate her to reach orgasm.

3) Missionary position (man on top, woman on bottom) is the best beginner position for anal sex. It allows the woman to fully relax her anus, making penetration much easier. The woman lies face up with a pillow under her pelvis and her legs pulled up. The man should kneel or lie facing the woman and insert his penis at an angle that is comfortable to both. This anal sex position is also the easiest one for her to climax in because her clitoris is stimulated by the friction from your penis rubbing against it as you are penetrating her beautiful bottom slowly and gently. Remember that this position also allows for deep, passionate kissing and caressing because of the face-to-face contact.

Anal sex should not lessen the love and respect shared between the two of you. These positions will help your woman,enjoy anal sex more by making her feel that she is giving herself to you and not just being "used." Naturally, the more she enjoys anal sex, the more she'll be willing to do it. Not only that, but the intimacy shared in your lovemaking will strengthen the bonds of your relationship.

Did you know that only 25% of women achieve orgasm from sex? If you can't satisfy a woman in bed, what are the chances she'll BEG you to get naked? On the other hand, if you become a virtuoso lover, one that can make her entire body quiver with pleasure, then she will be wanting your hot flesh up against her ALL THE TIME. To discover the proven secrets to make her climax more often and with greater intensity, even if you don't have a big penis, a great body, and even if she's never had an orgasm before, click here.

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How to Have Anal Sex with a Big Penis

Can a penis be too big for anal sex? Probably not, though size does matter. However, a big penis doesn't have to be a deal breaker. With proper preparation, enough lubrication, the right position, and relaxation techniques, having anal sex with a big penis can be comfortable and pleasurable.

1) Preparation. One way to prepare yourself for anal sex with a big penis is butt plugs. Get one butt plug as large as the diameter of your partner's penis and one or two smaller ones. Use the smaller ones as "trainers," if necessary, and work up to being able to insert the largest one. You can wear a butt plug during the day to prepare for anal sex that evening, or wait to insert it prior to foreplay. If you wear it while having vaginal sex, he will love how tight it makes your vagina feel. Once you're able to insert and wear the large butt plug, penetration with his penis should then be fairly comfortable.

2) Lubrication. Since the anal region is not self-lubricating, lubricants are essential to reduce friction and discomfort during anal sex, and even more so with a big penis. A good choice for anal sex is Astroglide, a super-smooth, long-lasting lubricant that can be found at many neighborhood pharmacies. Use as much lube as possible. You really can’t use too much.

3) Position. Though doggy-style may be the most popular anal sex position, it’s not necessarily the best one if your partner has a big penis. Missionary position (man on top, woman on bottom) allows the woman to fully relax her anus, making penetration much easier. Another good position is side anal or "spooning." The woman lies on one side, and the man approaches from the rear. The woman can relax her anus, and the man can easily access the entire anal area.

4) Relaxation. If you have pain when his penis is inserted, have your partner stop, but not pull out. He should just hold his position while you take several slow, deep breaths and relax the anal muscles. Pushing out (as you would for a bowel movement) will help to open those muscles and allow them relax against the penis. The pain should subside though you may still might feel some discomfort from having something pushing into you and being stretched open. Try to stay relaxed as he continues to push his penis in further. Any time it hurts, have your partner stop while you take slow, deep breaths, push out, and relax until the pain subsides.

If the man exercises patience and control, most women will be able to accommodate any size penis using the above techniques. The incredible sensations of fullness for a woman and tightness for the man make anal sex with a big penis worth the extra time and effort.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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6 Ways to Turn a Small Penis into a Big Asset

Do you consider your penis to be undersized? Having a small penis is far from being a death of your sex life. Men with small penises can actually become much better lovers and attract and satisfy beautiful women much better than men gifted with big ones. If you're not convinced, here are six ways to turn a small penis into a big asset.

1) Spend time on foreplay.
In many cases, women appreciate foreplay much more than actual penetration. The way you touch your woman indicates to her how you feel about her, and the way you feel about her impacts how she will respond to you sexually and how pleasurable the sex will be for her. Arouse her slowly. It takes most women far longer than men to become fully aroused - as long as a half-hour in many cases.

2) Improve your oral skills.
A big penis is no advantage when it comes to performing cunnilingus. Hardly any woman would complain that your penis is not big enough if you have made her climax with your tongue and lips. Following the 5 Steps to Perfect Cunnilingus will ensure that the size of your penis is the last thing on her mind.

3) Play and tease.
The erogenous zones that bring most women to orgasm are easy to access. Use all possible techniques to please her clitoris- stroke it with your fingers, mouth, and, yes, your penis. If you learn to how to Tease Her to Please Her, you may make her orgasm happen before actual penetration.

4) Learn how to use what you have.
Your small penis can feel big if you use one of these two positions that will make your penis feel bigger inside her. However, it's not really about the size, but about the way you use it. Studies reveal that only about 30% of women reach orgasm from sexual intercourse, but if you use theFriction Zone Technique, you can often give women orgasms during intercourse who have never had them before.

5) A small penis can be an advantage with anal sex.
A woman who is hesitant to try anal sex with a big penis may be more will to have a go at it with a small one. If you follow these 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex, she may even learn to like it even more than doing it in the "usual way."

6) Engage your creativity
Keep in mind that the biggest erogenous zone is brain. Excite your woman on a mental level. Talk to her, give her compliments, and invent new scenarios of lovemaking. In other words, turn your sex session into something special.

Now that you are aware of all these techniques, stop worrying. You now know that you can satisfy any woman no matter what the size of your penis. Besides, women like men - not penises. Once a woman is involved in a relationship with a man, all the sizes and other measurements become absolutely insignificant.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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Which Anal Sex Positions Are Best for Beginners?

Many women are curious about anal sex, but are scared about comfort and safety issues. Some women who are unwilling to try anal sex with their current partner may have had a bad experience with an impatient or ignorant lover in the past.

However, anal sex can be very pleasurable for women because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are actually closer on that side, which makes the sensation unique, stronger and quite possibly orgasmic. My post Anal Sex from a Female Perspective describes what anal sex feels like for a woman. If you want to try anal sex with your wife or girlfriend, but are uncertain of her reaction, use the approach I recommend in How to Make Her Want Anal Sex.

For those couples trying anal sex for the first time, choosing the best position may make the difference between a painful or pleasurable experience.

1) Doggie Style is probably the most commonly thought of anal sex position. The woman kneels on all fours, and the man approaches from the rear. Though this is the most common anal position, it's not necessarily the most comfortable, or the best beginner position, as the woman tends to tighten up her anus in this position.

2) Flying Doggie is a variation of the popular doggie style position. The man stands behind the woman and places his feet outside the legs of the woman. You'll find that the man will be positioned higher and will be inserting into the anus in a more downward fashion.


3) In the Wheelbarrow position, the man approaches the woman from behind, similar to doggie stye, but lifts the woman's legs into the air. The woman must support herself with her arms only, or lie flat on a bed or chair.

4) The Anal Drop position puts the woman on top and the man on the bottom. You might think that this would be the best beginner position since it gives the woman control over the depth and speed of penetration, but being on top causes the woman to involuntarily tighten up her anus, making penetration difficult.

5) In the Anal Kama Sutra position, the man lies flat on his back with the woman on top, facing the man's feet. The woman should lean as far toward the feet as possible and then commence pumping. This angle tends to maximize anal pleasure for the woman while delaying orgasm for the man.

6) Side Anal is a good beginner position. The woman lies on one side, and the man approaches from the rear. The woman can relax her anus, and the man can easily access the entire anal area.

7) The Missionary position (man on top, woman on bottom) is the best beginner position for anal sex. It allows the woman to fully relax her anus, making penetration much easier. The woman lies face up with a pillow under her pelvis and her legs pulled up. The man should kneel or lie facing the woman and insert at an angle that is comfortable to both. In this position, the woman can relax several muscles necessary for pleasurable anal sex.

Women are often just as excited as men to be venturing into the anal aspect of sex. Many couples find that anal sex is a tremendous tool to enhance their regular sex activities. It's a unique feeling that is completely different to vaginal sex and worth experimenting with.

If you want a complete guide to making anal sex the fun, pleasurable experience it should be, Arouse Her Anal Ecstasy focuses on how to introduce a woman to anal sexuality with a pleasurable and painless detailed step-by-step system. This book teaches exactly what to do and how to do it. You will give her incredible orgasms by stimulating multiple erogenous zones, and she will love it!

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