Male Nipple Play: Nipple Stimulation for HIM

Nipple stimulation is usually assumed to be a sexual technique applied to women. Nipple stimulation in men tends to be thought of as kinky, but the truth is that our nipples, both women’s and men’s, have extremely sensitive nerve endings, thus making them highly responsive to touch and capable of producing extreme pleasure.

A recent study indicates that many men as well as most women enjoy having their nipples stimulated. Dr. Roy Levin of University of Sheffield in the United Kingdom and Dr. Cindy Meston of the University of Texas at Austin surveyed approximately 300 sexually experienced undergraduate students. The results strongly indicate that men enjoy nipple stimulation as much as women.

Almost 82 percent of the women responding to the survey reported that stimulation of their nipples increased their sexual arousal, and 78 percent said that, if they were already sexually aroused, nipple stimulation increased their arousal. Among the men, about 52 percent reported that nipple stimulation increased their arousal, while about 40 percent indicated that if already aroused such stimulation would arouse them more.

Men who are comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality are usually more open to experimentation. With a patient and persistent partner, most men can be introduced to and become comfortable with nipple play. Men’s nipples have the same nerve-packed pleasure receptors that women’s do. However, since men’s nipples are often neglected, and therefore not accustomed to stimulation, they might be supersensitive to touch. So make sure you start out gently, and then gauge how much pressure to apply by how he responds to your strokes.

You might begin by tracing the outside of his areola with your finger, brushing his tip as you complete full circles. Then, lick around his nipples, zeroing in on each tip by flicking your tongue back and forth, finishing up with a gentle bite. Or, place your lips over each nipple and gently suck. If he wants you to play a little rougher, try nipping him a bit harder, or tweak the tip between your thumb and forefinger. Try running your fingernails down his back as you suck his nipples. He will shiver with desire. Or stroke his shaft while softly kissing and nibbling on nipples.

Most men are so ”phallocentric” (focused on their penises) that they haven’t even begun to explore the uncharted seas of their own body or sexuality. They’re essentially ignorant when it comes to whole-body pleasures, including nipple stimulation. Little do they know the pleasure they could experience by expanding their present sexual repertoire.

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Testicle Play: 10 Ways to Stimulate Your Man’s Testicles

A man's testicles are very sensitive to touch and can be a source of sensual pleasure. They can be incredibly sensitive and respond intensely when stimulated. Many men enjoy their scrotum being held, tugged, massaged, licked, or pulled during sexual encounters.. Here are ten ways to increase your man's sexual pleasure by stimulating his testicles.

1) As you're kissing, gently cradle his testicles in the palm of your hand. No need to do anything but hold them. Your warm hand and hot kisses will instantly arouse him.

2) Move the pad of your index finger in circles against the base of his shaft. Your finger should just barely tickle the top of his scrotum.

3) Play with very light pinching on his scrotal skin in the area where the base of the shaft meets the testicles. Warning: just the skin - not the testicles!

4) Encircle his testicles at the base, massaging them lightly between your thumb and index finger, then gently pull them away from his body so you're holding them in a compact sack. (This will expose more nerve endings and increase his pleasure level.) Lightly stroke them with your fingertips.

5) Wrap both hands around his penis, one above the other, then move the top hand toward the head of his penis and the other hand down toward his testicles so that you're essentially gently tugging up on his penis with one hand and down on the testicles with the other. Hold for a moment to let him register the feeling that his erection is getting even bigger, then release and repeat.

6) Straddle his chest while facing his feet. Lube up your hands, and place one between his legs with your fingers draped over his testicles. Then drag your fingers lightly up and over his testicles and penis, all the way to his belly. Repeat with your other hand, and continue to alternate for a tantalizing massage.

7) Rub the flat sides of your fingernails (not the edges!) against his scrotum to give him a different sensation. They are harder and smoother and feel a little cooler than your fingertips.

8) Take one or both of his testicles into your mouth (watch your teeth!). Hold there, and swirl your tongue around or suck gently. The testicles are very sensitive. Light pressure is best.

9) Trace the seam that runs down the middle of his testicles with your tongue.

10) As you're cradling his testicles with one hand, place a knuckle from your other hand against his perineum (the area between his testicles and anus), and vibrate it.

Adding testicle stimulation can bring variety to your sex life and possibly open the door for new pleasurable sensations that your man hasn't experienced before. With just a little caress here and an extra squeeze there, you'll have him experiencing an increased sense of pleasure in no time!

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7 Tips for Swallowing Semen

Even though swallowing semen may help prevent depression and lower blood pressure, many women (including some who enthusiastically perform fellatio on their men) still don't like to swallow. Women who don't swallow usually blame their gag reflex or the taste of semen for their refusal. However, swallowing has deep, symbolic significance to men. By swallowing, a woman indicates her complete acceptance of him. Spitting out his semen is a symbolic rejection to many men.

If you would like to make fellatio an even better experience for your man by swallowing his semen, here are seven tips for overcoming the gag reflex and the taste:

1) Swallow in the morning
If gagging is an obstacle to swallowing for you, you should know that the gag reflex is least active the first thing in the morning. Try giving your man fellatio when you first wake up. This is the best time to practice swallowing with a minimum of gagging. Once you have had a few successful attempts, you'll become more accustomed to swallowing semen and the gagging will stop.

2) Avoid the taste buds
The main complaints about the taste of semen are that it is bitter and salty. The taste buds on different areas of the tongue are sensitive to specific tastes: sweet on the tip of the tongue, salty and sour on the sides, and bitter at the back. When swallowing semen, you can minimize the unpleasant tastes by trying to keep it away from the corresponding parts of your tongue. Since the "bitter" taste buds at the back of the throat are the most problematic, the solution is either to overshoot them by deep throatingor by pooling the semen in the front of the mouth and then swallowing quickly in one gulp. Make sure the semen spends as little time as possible lingering near the back of your tongue.

3) Deep throat
As mentioned in the above tip, when you perform deep throat, the head of the penis is in so deeply that it extends past the "bitter" taste buds that are on the back of the tongue. As your man reaches the moment of ejaculation, take his penis as far into your throat as you can, swallow as his semen hits the back of your throat, and continue swallowing until he's finished. You'll never taste it if you can avoid getting it on your tongue.

4) Use flavored lubes
There are a number of flavored lubes available that may help you disguise the taste of semen. Pick the flavor that you like the best and spread a generous amount all over his penis before putting it in your mouth. This has the added bonus of making fellatio, especially deep throating, easier because you don't have to produce all the lubricant yourself.

5) Pop a mint
Try sucking on an Altoid, Tic Tac, or mentholated cough drop immediately before performing fellatio. The mint will kill the taste of the semen when he ejaculates. Also, many men enjoy getting a tingle from mint or menthol products on their penises.

With the first five tips, you can hide the fact that you don't like the taste of his semen. With these last two, however, you're obviously trying to disguise the taste. With a little finesse on your part, though, he won't mind.

5) Wash it down
One way to keep from having to taste semen when you swallow is to wash it down with something. If you have a glass of water by your bedside, after he ejaculates, simply reach for the glass of water and wash the semen down the same way you would a pill or capsule. (Remember those health benefits.) Try not to move your head too much, other than tilting it back, in order to minimize the sloshing effect. Done correctly, you'll never taste it.

7) Just a spoonful of sugar
Instead of taking your "medicine" like a good girl with only water to wash it down, try following Mary Poppins' advice to disguise the taste with a "spoonful of sugar." You can easily use a mouthful of chocolate syrup or honey to chase down the semen and get the taste out of your mouth. Using food as part of fellatio also causes you to subconsciously associate sucking a penis with swallowing something that tastes good. Eventually, that association may make swallowing semen "neat" taste good to you.

If a man has to worry about ejaculating, feeling that it is an imposition on the woman or the cause of unpleasantness, it creates tension. He cannot fully relax or fully enjoy his climax. A woman who swallows puts her partner at ease and allows him to relax and enjoy one of the most intimate and pleasurable sex acts she can perform on him.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.

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How to Milk Your Man's Penis with the Vaginal Squeeze

Women throughout history have been known for their sexual tricks and abilities. One of the most famous female "sex tricks" is the vaginal squeeze. It has different names in different cultures and countries. In India it is called the pompoir, the Arabic word for it is the Kabbazah (to clasp), and in the Far East it is known as the Singapore Kiss. They all refer to a woman developing strength and control of her vaginal muscles.

To develop the strong PC muscles needed to do the vaginal squeeze, follow the program in my post Vaginal Strengthening Exercises for More Powerful Orgasms. You can practice PC muscle exercises while driving, standing in line, or lying on the sofa watching television. After being on this program for 4-8 weeks you should have dramatically increased your PC muscle strength.

As you strengthen your vaginal muscles, you may notice that you can isolate two different sets of muscles, and you can flex them in isolation, too. When the PC muscles are strong, they have the ability to sort of ripple when they are squeezing. This also happens during an intense orgasm in a woman. The rippling causes a kind of milking action - which is felt by the penis - that starts at one end and moves along the vagina.

To perform the vaginal squeeze, simply flex your PC muscles in a continuous pattern of tightening (as you pull him inside) and releasing (as you push him out). You can also use your PC muscles to give your man the sensation of being sucked into you during intercourse. As the head of his penis is about to enter you, exhale completely. Then, as the head enters, breath in deeply while at the same time strongly contracting your PC muscles.

The vaginal squeeze is most effective when the man does not thrust vigorously. For greater control, shift to the woman on top position (if you're not there already). Vary the sensations by incorporating shallow and deep penetration along with the squeezing and relaxing.

As your man nears ejaculation, squeeze as fast as you can. When you have developed strong PC muscles, you can make him feel as if the ejaculate is being pulled from his body. A woman who truly is expert at using her vaginal muscles can bring a man to orgasm simply by massaging his penis with her vagina without moving her body.

Men say the sensation of penile milking with a strong vagina is the ultimate sexual experience, and they prefer it over oral stimulation. After experiencing the vaginal squeeze, he might forget his own name, but he'll never forget yours.

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