The Secret to Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation used to be dismissed as a myth, but the scientific community was proven wrong in 1980 when John D. Perry and Beverly Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the Society for the Scientific Study of Sex. Female ejaculate is a fluid released from the G-spot area. It is usually clear, or milky and as thin as water. The secret to female ejaculation is G-spot stimulation to orgasm.


G-spot stimulation often causes a “push out” orgasm. The area around, or “above” (i.e., farther inside) the fingers or penis seems to swell up or to contract toward the opening of her vagina. G-spot orgasms sometimes cause a huge amount (relatively speaking) of lubrication–far more than even the most excited woman gets from “conventional” stimulation. When that extra lubrication combines with the push-out orgasm, you get actual ejaculation.

The G–spot is a small mound of tissue, between a penny and quarter in size, inside the vagina. The best time to begin searching for the G-spot is when a woman is very aroused, i.e., immediately before orgasm or after it, when this area swells. To locate the G-spot, imagine your partner is lying on her back with you positioned between her spread legs. Slide a finger inside her vagina, palm up. With your finger straight back (middle finger is best) you would curve it toward yourself, gently, as if you were gesturing to someone to “come here.” In doing so, the raised, textured area you press on should be her G-spot area. It’s easier to hit the right area with two fingers, but this may not be comfortable for her, depending on how “tight” she is at that moment.

When you have your fingers on the right area, try gently pressing. The movement should be rhythmic and hard, not quick. When you find the right area, she should respond by getting more excited. Since every woman is different, couples may need to experiment with different positions to find the best way to stimulate her G-spot. Here are the best 4 positions for G-spot massage. To stimulate the G-spot during intercourse, the penis must rub or press against the front wall of the vagina. Jennifer Lawless at Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy has written a post about the 4 best sex positions for reaching a G-spot orgasm.

Once you get to the point where you feel as though you're going to have an orgasm, push your PC muscles out (rather than clenching them in) to increase your chances of squirting or gushing. Women with well-toned PC muscles are more likely to ejaculate and generally have better orgasms, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises.

To many women, the first time she ejaculates feels like she is letting her urine flow because it originates almost from the same area. However, it’s almost impossible to urinate while having an orgasm because the urethra temporarily closes up. You may want to place a towel underneath you during your first few attempts if it makes you feel more comfortable.

For some women, G-spot stimulation is more likely to result in orgasm over a period of weeks or months after first starting to experiment with it, so don’t worry if you don’t have a G-spot orgasm the first time as long as you’re having fun trying.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

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The 4 Best Positions for G-Spot Massage

The G-spot is the focal point of female sexual arousal. The G-spot lies about 2 inches inside the vagina behind the front wall of the vagina. It is a tiny, bean-shaped area which swells and can become as large as a quarter when stimulated, though, actually, the aroused G-spot's size varies considerably from woman to woman. Since every woman is different, couples may need to experiment with different positions to find the best way to stimulate her G-spot. Try these four positions for G-spot massage.

1) Woman upright on her knees with the man in front of her is the best position to use when trying to find her G-spot for the first time.

2) Woman on her back with the man between her legs is also a great position for G-spot massage. This position allows easy access to the clitoris, G-spot, and, at the same time, you are able to view your partner's reactions to your stimulation. This video demonstrates this position.

3) The woman on her back with the man beside her position is one of the best positions for helping a woman to experience a G-spot orgasm for the first time. This position provides the physical closeness and emotional security that most women need to be able to let themselves go and experience a deeper orgasm and ejaculation. You can kiss her, whisper sweet nothings to her, squeeze her to reassure her that you are there with her, and stimulate her at the same time. The drawback is that your arm can get tired very quickly in this position.

4) The woman bent over on her hands and knees with the man behind her can be very stimulating for both partners. This is especially pleasing and erotic for the man if the man is fond of his partner’s derrière. In any position from behind the woman, the man must use a downward pressure with his fingers to stimulate the G-spot because the position of the front wall of the vagina is reversed from the other positions with the woman on her back.

Many women report that they can have an orgasm from stimulation of the G-spot alone. Some women also report that orgasms arising from G-spot stimulation are more intense, deeper, more "whole body." A few women even say they ejaculate. Most women who have experienced both claim that it is easier to have multiple G-spot orgasms than it is to have multiple clitoral orgasms. It is also true that the intensity of G-spot orgasms may be directly related to pubococcygeal muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

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How to Give Your Woman an Orgasm during Intercourse

If your woman isn't as eager for sex as you'd like her to be (or not interested at all), it's probably because she isn't getting much enjoyment from it. It's human nature to want more of what we like and less of what we don't. If your partner isn't sick, injured, or cheating on you, the reason she doesn't want to have sex more often is because she doesn't enjoy it. Period.

Surveys reveal that only about 30 percent of women have orgasms with intercourse. Female sexual pleasure mostly associates with her clitoris and G spot. Women often don't have orgasm with intercourse because some sex positions don't provide enough stimulation of these pleasure spots. Here are some positions and techniques that do provide the stimulation your woman needs to have an orgasm with intercourse.

Positions and techniques for clitoral stimulation

Woman on top
The woman on top position is definitely the choice of women because she gets direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some women don’t like to be “on top” because they feel the man gets to be too lazy and only has to lie back and watch the show. You can remedy this by sitting up against pillows so that it’s far easier to kiss, and she can feel more engaged with you. The woman needs to set the pace with this position since she’s the one with the greatest possible range of motion. If she needs greater clitoral stimulation than this position normally gives her, she can lean forward and do more of a grinding motion than thrusting so that her clitoris rubs against your public bone. You can add even greater stimulation by caressing the sensitive undersides of her buttocks, or stroking her back door (make sure she’s well-lubricated), or even inserting a finger into her anus.

Doggy Style Sex Position
Sexual intercourse from behind gives a man access to almost every sensitive part of a woman’s body, allowing you to easily control her level of pleasure. Usually, a woman spreads her legs during doggy style sex to allow you access in between, making it easy to reach her clitoris while thrusting. She can arch her back or lower herself toward the bed to change the sensations. Either one of you can control the motion. You can thrust, she can rock back onto you, or both. Slow it down if you’re approaching orgasm and she needs more clitoral stimulation. If you time it right, you may well be able to reach your orgasms simultaneously.

Missionary (man-on-top) Sex Position
The missionary position is still a favorite for many couples because it’s one of the most intimate, but it doesn't allow for a lot of clitoral stimulation. The CAT, or coital alignment technique, is a way to make sure you’re lined up to give her clitoris the stimulation it needs to bring her to climax. To get into position, you slide forward from your normal resting place so that her clitoris is receiving stimulation from the base of your penis. She can then wrap her legs around yours, trying to extend the stretch of her legs so that her ankles are about at the height of your calves. With this position she can then begin to thrust her own pelvis, repeatedly making contact between her clitoris and the base of your penis.

When performing CAT, the main thing to keep in mind is maintaining contact with the clitoris. The overall movement is much less a thrusting than a synchronized rocking back and forth with the focus on the clitoris and the base of the penis. Here’s the most important part: as she pushes up on the top of your shaft, you resist with less force than she pushes. Now, on the way back down, as you push down against her clitoris, she resists with less force than you push. The result is a series of “small collisions,” rather than the standard friction of thrusting though “collisions” is an exaggeration.

Positions and techniques for G-spot stimulation
Woman-on-top and doggy style also work great for G-spot stimulation. If she leans forward when she's on top, it will cause your penis to touch her G-spot. Doggy style can be an effective position for G-spot stimulation in women because when thrusting from behind your penis should naturally rub against her G-spot. You need to massage her G-spot before penetration, though, to "wake it up." The penis, since it puts less direct pressure on the G-spot, can be even more pleasurable than fingers, but it often takes a lot of thrusting to stimulate the G-spot as much as only a few minutes of manual massage can do.

The secret for men to add that extra "oomph" for G-spot stimulation during intercourse is practicing your PC muscle exercises. When a man squeezes his PC muscle, women usually feel extra pressure on the top part of their vaginal walls, stimulating their G-spots. Every once in a while, stop the active thrusting and just tap your penis upwards using your PC muscles. You'll be amazed at the results.

Positions and techniques for clitoral and G-spot stimulation
Combine techniques from both of the above. Stimulating both the clitoris and G-spot may lead to a powerful blended orgasm for her, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.

Are these the only positions and techniques that will give woman an orgasm with intercourse? Absolutely not! Don’t be afraid to experiment, especially with a long-term partner. Women love sex just as much as you do. If you can make a woman feel great and give her an orgasm from time to time (or often), she will be more receptive to your sexual advances. That will lead to something both you and she want: more sex.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

Read more »

The 4 Best Positions for G-Spot Massage

The G-spot is the focal point of female sexual arousal. The G-spot lies about 2 inches inside the vagina behind the front wall of the vagina. It is a tiny, bean-shaped area which swells and can become as large as a quarter when stimulated, though, actually, the aroused G-spot's size varies considerably from woman to woman. Since every woman is different, couples may need to experiment with different positions to find the best way to stimulate her G-spot. Try these four positions for G-spot massage.

1) Woman upright on her knees with the man in front of her is the best position to use when trying to find her G-spot for the first time.

2) Woman on her back with the man between her legs is also a great position for G-spot massage. This position allows easy access to the clitoris, G-spot, and, at the same time, you are able to view your partner's reactions to your stimulation. This video demonstrates this position.

3) The woman on her back with the man beside her position is one of the best positions for helping a woman to experience a G-spot orgasm for the first time. This position provides the physical closeness and emotional security that most women need to be able to let themselves go and experience a deeper orgasm and ejaculation. You can kiss her, whisper sweet nothings to her, squeeze her to reassure her that you are there with her, and stimulate her at the same time. The drawback is that your arm can get tired very quickly in this position.

4) The woman bent over on her hands and knees with the man behind her can be very stimulating for both partners. This is especially pleasing and erotic for the man if the man is fond of his partner’s derrière. In any position from behind the woman, the man must use a downward pressure with his fingers to stimulate the G-spot because the position of the front wall of the vagina is reversed from the other positions with the woman on her back.

Many women report that they can have an orgasm from stimulation of the G-spot alone. Some women also report that orgasms arising from G-spot stimulation are more intense, deeper, more "whole body." A few women even say they ejaculate. Most women who have experienced both claim that it is easier to have multiple G-spot orgasms than it is to have multiple clitoral orgasms. It is also true that the intensity of G-spot orgasms may be directly related to pubococcygeal muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

Read more »