The Secret to Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation used to be dismissed as a myth, but the scientific community was proven wrong in 1980 when John D. Perry and Beverly Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the Society for the Scientific Study of Sex. Female ejaculate is a fluid released from the G-spot area. It is usually clear, or milky and as thin as water. The secret to female ejaculation is G-spot stimulation to orgasm.


G-spot stimulation often causes a “push out” orgasm. The area around, or “above” (i.e., farther inside) the fingers or penis seems to swell up or to contract toward the opening of her vagina. G-spot orgasms sometimes cause a huge amount (relatively speaking) of lubrication–far more than even the most excited woman gets from “conventional” stimulation. When that extra lubrication combines with the push-out orgasm, you get actual ejaculation.

The G–spot is a small mound of tissue, between a penny and quarter in size, inside the vagina. The best time to begin searching for the G-spot is when a woman is very aroused, i.e., immediately before orgasm or after it, when this area swells. To locate the G-spot, imagine your partner is lying on her back with you positioned between her spread legs. Slide a finger inside her vagina, palm up. With your finger straight back (middle finger is best) you would curve it toward yourself, gently, as if you were gesturing to someone to “come here.” In doing so, the raised, textured area you press on should be her G-spot area. It’s easier to hit the right area with two fingers, but this may not be comfortable for her, depending on how “tight” she is at that moment.

When you have your fingers on the right area, try gently pressing. The movement should be rhythmic and hard, not quick. When you find the right area, she should respond by getting more excited. Since every woman is different, couples may need to experiment with different positions to find the best way to stimulate her G-spot. Here are the best 4 positions for G-spot massage. To stimulate the G-spot during intercourse, the penis must rub or press against the front wall of the vagina. Jennifer Lawless at Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy has written a post about the 4 best sex positions for reaching a G-spot orgasm.

Once you get to the point where you feel as though you're going to have an orgasm, push your PC muscles out (rather than clenching them in) to increase your chances of squirting or gushing. Women with well-toned PC muscles are more likely to ejaculate and generally have better orgasms, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises.

To many women, the first time she ejaculates feels like she is letting her urine flow because it originates almost from the same area. However, it’s almost impossible to urinate while having an orgasm because the urethra temporarily closes up. You may want to place a towel underneath you during your first few attempts if it makes you feel more comfortable.

For some women, G-spot stimulation is more likely to result in orgasm over a period of weeks or months after first starting to experiment with it, so don’t worry if you don’t have a G-spot orgasm the first time as long as you’re having fun trying.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

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What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?

My posts about penis size are always popular, but the responses I get from women are about their concerns with how big their partner is, not about how small. Some women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can hit the cervix during penetration, and a thick penis may feel like it’s stretching you too much. Since I'm among the one in three women who does enjoy sex with a big penis, I'll explain why I do.

It's been said that the brain is the body's largest sex organ. A big penis can be both a visual and a sensational turn on. The sight of a big penis makes many women think about the potential pleasures of feeling "full, " which can cause sexual excitement before foreplay even begins. The "vaginal ache," a desire to be "filled up" that women get during sexual arousal, may be satisfied by having something large stretch and fill the vagina. Also the experience of accommodating a big penis can be a mentally stimulating, thus, making it easier to reach orgasm.

So, what does the vagina actually feel like when it is being entered, probed, and "filled" with a big penis? Well, it obviously feels good. That "good" feeling comes from the friction of the penis rubbing within me. If I am too dry, the friction can cause discomfort rather than pleasure. If my vagina is too well lubricated, the friction is often reduced. In those cases, the actual intercourse can be less enjoyable, but that is often overcome by my mental stimulation knowing how turned on I am because I being screwed by a big penis.

Generally, a woman can accommodate a penis that is somewhat longer than the depth of her vagina because, even when fully erect, the penis tends to be spongy and compresses somewhat against the firm back wall of the vagina. If the probing penis is not too long or too "bony," women often enjoy the feeling of having that penis "beat" against the back walls of their vagina. However, some women don't like their cervix bumped at all, whether head on or sliding underneath.

I find a little bit of pressure on the cervix can be VERY pleasurable, but "cervical sex" is only really phenomenal for me if I am 100% ready to go and so aroused that I am ready to just be completely devoured by the man I'm with. If I am not quite to that point, having a penis knocking on my cervix hurts like getting a tattoo, not really all that painful, but certainly annoying.

Women generally love the feeling of deep penetration into their vagina, but for most women a thick penis is much more important than a long penis. This preference of penis girth over length is because a thick penis is much more able to give women that wonderful feeling of being full in their vagina. Some women find their orgasms are more intense when their vagina is filled to capacity. In addition, since it's able to press a woman’s vagina from all sides of the wall, a thick penis is more likely to stimulate the G-spot.

Does my preference for a big penis mean that I'll only have sex with a well-endowed man? No, the man himself is more important than the size of his penis. Intercourse is only one aspect of sex, and oral and anal sex can provide as much erotic pleasure as I could ever desire. Besides, certain sex positions can make a smaller penis feel longer and thicker anyway. Still, a man who is both a masterful lover and well-hung... ooh la la!

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

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The 4 Best Positions for G-Spot Massage

The G-spot is the focal point of female sexual arousal. The G-spot lies about 2 inches inside the vagina behind the front wall of the vagina. It is a tiny, bean-shaped area which swells and can become as large as a quarter when stimulated, though, actually, the aroused G-spot's size varies considerably from woman to woman. Since every woman is different, couples may need to experiment with different positions to find the best way to stimulate her G-spot. Try these four positions for G-spot massage.

1) Woman upright on her knees with the man in front of her is the best position to use when trying to find her G-spot for the first time.

2) Woman on her back with the man between her legs is also a great position for G-spot massage. This position allows easy access to the clitoris, G-spot, and, at the same time, you are able to view your partner's reactions to your stimulation. This video demonstrates this position.

3) The woman on her back with the man beside her position is one of the best positions for helping a woman to experience a G-spot orgasm for the first time. This position provides the physical closeness and emotional security that most women need to be able to let themselves go and experience a deeper orgasm and ejaculation. You can kiss her, whisper sweet nothings to her, squeeze her to reassure her that you are there with her, and stimulate her at the same time. The drawback is that your arm can get tired very quickly in this position.

4) The woman bent over on her hands and knees with the man behind her can be very stimulating for both partners. This is especially pleasing and erotic for the man if the man is fond of his partner’s derrière. In any position from behind the woman, the man must use a downward pressure with his fingers to stimulate the G-spot because the position of the front wall of the vagina is reversed from the other positions with the woman on her back.

Many women report that they can have an orgasm from stimulation of the G-spot alone. Some women also report that orgasms arising from G-spot stimulation are more intense, deeper, more "whole body." A few women even say they ejaculate. Most women who have experienced both claim that it is easier to have multiple G-spot orgasms than it is to have multiple clitoral orgasms. It is also true that the intensity of G-spot orgasms may be directly related to pubococcygeal muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

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