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Have a Small Penis? 3 Tips to Make It Seem Larger
Men who are unhappy with the size of their penis often suffer from low self-esteem and try to overcompensate in other areas. Some men with small penises admit to avoiding sexual encounters in case they are unable to satisfy their partner. They feel that finding a woman who will not judge them because of their small size is next to impossible, and therefore, have trouble approaching women they are attracted to. Others are so ashamed of their penis that they have remained virgins because of their fear of being naked in front of a woman.
If this at all describes how you feel about your penis, here are three tips to make it seem larger:
1) Taking a hot shower immediately before sex can make your penis appear larger by dilating blood vessels in the penis.
2) If you have long or extremely thick pubic hair, try trimming it down or shaving it off entirely. An excess of pubic hair can make a small penis look even smaller.
3) If you are overweight, your belly or lower abdominal fat can make your penis appear even smaller than it is. Losing weight can make your penis look larger relative to your body.
As you can see, there are several ways to make a small penis seem larger. Of course, these options provide only temporary or illusory solutions to your penis size problem. For truly effective, long-term results, natural penis enlargement is the way to go.
If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.
Male Nipple Play: Nipple Stimulation for HIM
A recent study indicates that many men as well as most women enjoy having their nipples stimulated. Dr. Roy Levin of University of Sheffield in the United Kingdom and Dr. Cindy Meston of the University of Texas at Austin surveyed approximately 300 sexually experienced undergraduate students. The results strongly indicate that men enjoy nipple stimulation as much as women.
Almost 82 percent of the women responding to the survey reported that stimulation of their nipples increased their sexual arousal, and 78 percent said that, if they were already sexually aroused, nipple stimulation increased their arousal. Among the men, about 52 percent reported that nipple stimulation increased their arousal, while about 40 percent indicated that if already aroused such stimulation would arouse them more.
Men who are comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality are usually more open to experimentation. With a patient and persistent partner, most men can be introduced to and become comfortable with nipple play. Men’s nipples have the same nerve-packed pleasure receptors that women’s do. However, since men’s nipples are often neglected, and therefore not accustomed to stimulation, they might be supersensitive to touch. So make sure you start out gently, and then gauge how much pressure to apply by how he responds to your strokes.
You might begin by tracing the outside of his areola with your finger, brushing his tip as you complete full circles. Then, lick around his nipples, zeroing in on each tip by flicking your tongue back and forth, finishing up with a gentle bite. Or, place your lips over each nipple and gently suck. If he wants you to play a little rougher, try nipping him a bit harder, or tweak the tip between your thumb and forefinger. Try running your fingernails down his back as you suck his nipples. He will shiver with desire. Or stroke his shaft while softly kissing and nibbling on nipples.
Most men are so ”phallocentric” (focused on their penises) that they haven’t even begun to explore the uncharted seas of their own body or sexuality. They’re essentially ignorant when it comes to whole-body pleasures, including nipple stimulation. Little do they know the pleasure they could experience by expanding their present sexual repertoire.
To learn everything you ever needed to know about giving a man mind-blowing pleasure and how to be the best that he has ever had in his entire life, click here!
7 Tips for Swallowing Semen
If you would like to make fellatio an even better experience for your man by swallowing his semen, here are seven tips for overcoming the gag reflex and the taste:
1) Swallow in the morning
If gagging is an obstacle to swallowing for you, you should know that the gag reflex is least active the first thing in the morning. Try giving your man fellatio when you first wake up. This is the best time to practice swallowing with a minimum of gagging. Once you have had a few successful attempts, you'll become more accustomed to swallowing semen and the gagging will stop.
2) Avoid the taste buds
The main complaints about the taste of semen are that it is bitter and salty. The taste buds on different areas of the tongue are sensitive to specific tastes: sweet on the tip of the tongue, salty and sour on the sides, and bitter at the back. When swallowing semen, you can minimize the unpleasant tastes by trying to keep it away from the corresponding parts of your tongue. Since the "bitter" taste buds at the back of the throat are the most problematic, the solution is either to overshoot them by deep throatingor by pooling the semen in the front of the mouth and then swallowing quickly in one gulp. Make sure the semen spends as little time as possible lingering near the back of your tongue.
3) Deep throat
As mentioned in the above tip, when you perform deep throat, the head of the penis is in so deeply that it extends past the "bitter" taste buds that are on the back of the tongue. As your man reaches the moment of ejaculation, take his penis as far into your throat as you can, swallow as his semen hits the back of your throat, and continue swallowing until he's finished. You'll never taste it if you can avoid getting it on your tongue.
4) Use flavored lubes
There are a number of flavored lubes available that may help you disguise the taste of semen. Pick the flavor that you like the best and spread a generous amount all over his penis before putting it in your mouth. This has the added bonus of making fellatio, especially deep throating, easier because you don't have to produce all the lubricant yourself.
5) Pop a mint
Try sucking on an Altoid, Tic Tac, or mentholated cough drop immediately before performing fellatio. The mint will kill the taste of the semen when he ejaculates. Also, many men enjoy getting a tingle from mint or menthol products on their penises.
With the first five tips, you can hide the fact that you don't like the taste of his semen. With these last two, however, you're obviously trying to disguise the taste. With a little finesse on your part, though, he won't mind.
5) Wash it down
One way to keep from having to taste semen when you swallow is to wash it down with something. If you have a glass of water by your bedside, after he ejaculates, simply reach for the glass of water and wash the semen down the same way you would a pill or capsule. (Remember those health benefits.) Try not to move your head too much, other than tilting it back, in order to minimize the sloshing effect. Done correctly, you'll never taste it.
7) Just a spoonful of sugar
Instead of taking your "medicine" like a good girl with only water to wash it down, try following Mary Poppins' advice to disguise the taste with a "spoonful of sugar." You can easily use a mouthful of chocolate syrup or honey to chase down the semen and get the taste out of your mouth. Using food as part of fellatio also causes you to subconsciously associate sucking a penis with swallowing something that tastes good. Eventually, that association may make swallowing semen "neat" taste good to you.
If a man has to worry about ejaculating, feeling that it is an imposition on the woman or the cause of unpleasantness, it creates tension. He cannot fully relax or fully enjoy his climax. A woman who swallows puts her partner at ease and allows him to relax and enjoy one of the most intimate and pleasurable sex acts she can perform on him.
All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.
How to Milk Your Man's Penis with the Vaginal Squeeze
Women throughout history have been known for their sexual tricks and abilities. One of the most famous female "sex tricks" is the vaginal squeeze. It has different names in different cultures and countries. In India it is called the pompoir, the Arabic word for it is the Kabbazah (to clasp), and in the Far East it is known as the Singapore Kiss. They all refer to a woman developing strength and control of her vaginal muscles.To develop the strong PC muscles needed to do the vaginal squeeze, follow the program in my post Vaginal Strengthening Exercises for More Powerful Orgasms. You can practice PC muscle exercises while driving, standing in line, or lying on the sofa watching television. After being on this program for 4-8 weeks you should have dramatically increased your PC muscle strength.
As you strengthen your vaginal muscles, you may notice that you can isolate two different sets of muscles, and you can flex them in isolation, too. When the PC muscles are strong, they have the ability to sort of ripple when they are squeezing. This also happens during an intense orgasm in a woman. The rippling causes a kind of milking action - which is felt by the penis - that starts at one end and moves along the vagina.
To perform the vaginal squeeze, simply flex your PC muscles in a continuous pattern of tightening (as you pull him inside) and releasing (as you push him out). You can also use your PC muscles to give your man the sensation of being sucked into you during intercourse. As the head of his penis is about to enter you, exhale completely. Then, as the head enters, breath in deeply while at the same time strongly contracting your PC muscles.
The vaginal squeeze is most effective when the man does not thrust vigorously. For greater control, shift to the woman on top position (if you're not there already). Vary the sensations by incorporating shallow and deep penetration along with the squeezing and relaxing.
As your man nears ejaculation, squeeze as fast as you can. When you have developed strong PC muscles, you can make him feel as if the ejaculate is being pulled from his body. A woman who truly is expert at using her vaginal muscles can bring a man to orgasm simply by massaging his penis with her vagina without moving her body.
Men say the sensation of penile milking with a strong vagina is the ultimate sexual experience, and they prefer it over oral stimulation. After experiencing the vaginal squeeze, he might forget his own name, but he'll never forget yours.
To learn everything you ever needed to know about giving a man mind-blowing pleasure and how to be the best that he has ever had in his entire life, click here!
Sex Positions for Different Penis Sizes
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Missionary Position
This man-on-top position is pleasurable for a woman if the man has a big penis, but remember that the more your pelvis is tilted, the deeper the penetration, so none of that feet-over-his-shoulders, pillows under your butt stuff. Also, the further apart your legs are, the deeper he can thrust, so keep your thighs together. Not only will it prevent him from plunging in too far, it can also make for some out-of-this-world clitoral/penile friction. (My post What to Do If Your Man's Penis Is Too Big gives tips for having sex with a big penis.)
Woman-on-Top
The woman-on-top position is a good one to try because it lets you control the depth of penetration. Have him lie flat on his back and hover over him on your hands and knees while sliding him inside you. Move your hips in circular motions as you glide up and down, only going as deep as you can handle. Or, have him sit on a chair with no arms. Then simply straddle his lap, either facing toward him or away from him, and use your feet and thigh muscles to pump away.
The Slide
He kneels on a hard surface in a praying position, keeping his back straight. You lie in front of him with your genitals facing his direction. He then lifts your legs up to his shoulders, so your weight is supported on your shoulders. Shifting his erection downward, he penetrates you. He holds you in position by wrapping his arms around your upper thighs. The Slide is successful because it’s a position in which he can penetrate you shallowly. The technique works: He is able to focus on your supersensitive nerve endings near the entrance to the vagina with what also happens to be his most sensitive part - the head of his penis.
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Missionary with a Pillow
In the missionary position add a pillow under your bum. Tilting your pelvis will make entry easier, let him thrust deeper, and make your G-spot and clitoris more accessible for stimulation.
Doggy Style
You kneel on all fours; he stands behind you and penetrates, holding your hips to move you back and forth. Your butt presses against his testicles for additional stimulation, and your orgasm feels extra intense because he’s hitting the sensitive part of your front vaginal wall. He can also easily reach around to play with your clitoris.
The Lotus
With him sitting cross-legged, straddle him and wrap your legs around his waist. In this position the two of you rock back and forth, with your breasts pressed up against his chest and your arms around his neck. It’s intimate and lets you easily make out during penetration.
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Downward Doggy
Lie face down with legs stretched out and open slightly. Raise your butt a bit and have him enter, lying face down on top of you. He can prop himself up with his arms for more range of motion. This position allows for lots of penetration and friction for both of you, and you can stimulate your clitoris against the bed.
The Hook-Up
You lie on your back with him on top of you. Hook your legs up over his shoulders for deeper penetration, giving him complete control. A tip to remember for this and other positions: crossing your ankles (in this case, behind his neck) helps tighten the vaginal canal. It’s also a great way to squeeze him in and make him feel fuller inside you. His scrotum brushes against your butt with each stroke, and you can reach forward to cup his testicles while he can play with your breasts with his hands. The blood will rush to extremities like your nipples, making them highly sensitive.
Forward Bend
This position is like that move in yoga class where you bend forward to stretch out your legs except now you’ve got a man underneath you. With him lying on his back, lower yourself so that your legs are stretched in front of you. This is the less physically demanding version of the Hook Up - at least for you. He’ll be able to manipulate your motion by grabbing your hips, and you can use your hands to prop yourself up a bit. This is a good one for him because again, he can penetrate you deeply. (For more on this topic, see my post Two Sex Positions That Make Your Man's Penis Feel Bigger.)
Size does matter when it comes to sex, but any size can work if you use the right sex position. To modify other sex positions besides these, just remember the principles: moving your legs closer together tightens the vaginal canal and only allows shallower penetration. Moving your legs further apart opens the vaginal canal and allows deeper penetration. It's not rocket science, so you should be able to modify just about any of your favorite sex positions to make them more user-friendly with whatever size of penis your partner has.
If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.
